那天国庆日回到麻坡，真的好高兴，距离了将近三个星期，终于回到我的家乡，那种兴奋的心真的非笔墨所能形容。除此之外，这次回来也可以去见我的学妹，真的很想念她们。
当我抵达tanjung的时候，远远的就听见了管乐的声音，但是同样的声音，对我来说已经是不一样的感觉了。音乐里少了活力，也少了以往的感染力。心里五味杂全，为什么她们的程度变成这样了呢？是，没错，她们转去室内，但是她们有没有想到，身为国中的管乐团，不管怎样都会出队，比如这次的国庆日庆典表演，声音都要确保够大声，要有感染力。可是她们没有做到，而且最让我失望的是，saxophone section三个人，竟然只有一个人在吹，况且声音根本听不到。我真的好失望、好沮丧。我以前木管最强的saxophone section到底去了哪里了？不仅如此，昨天收到我学妹的信息，她说两个中一的学妹可能会剩一个罢了，不但如此，中四的委员要把一个中四的放进saxophone section里。再次的，心情跌落谷底，历史又重演，saxophone section又再次地变成“垃圾桶”，接受另一section的团员，之前的例外是因为步操比赛不够人，才破例让别的section的人加入我们。我真得无话可说，这就是saxophone section的命运吗？我的朋友，udin，说我太在意、太担心、太放不下她们了，但是能不在意吗？能不担心吗？能放得下她们吗？答案是不能，毕竟五年的时光在管乐团里，是我中学时期最开心的日子，能忘得掉吗？不能。我太在乎我学校的管乐团了，但是我无能为力，只能眼睁睁的看着她们怎么打理这个比想象中还复杂的大家庭。
未来，看似遥远，却又那么靠近。她们能做到吗？五年后我大学毕业后，回到中学，还会见到这个给我美好回忆的家吗？希望她们好好想想未来的路要怎么走吧。。。。
Friday, August 29, 2008
What a week....haiz~~~
Last Friday, before I went out from my apartment heading to BN building to have my calculus replacement class, when I wanted to lock my apartment's main door, there was something wrong somewhere, the lock was a little bit weird but I didn't think so much because I was nearly late for the class.
After the interesting calculus class, yes, is time to go back my apartment and continue my sleeping.(hahaha....I love to sleep....^^). Again, the lock still like that but it still can open, so I didn't do the report to the office. But a real nightmare came, about 7pm, I went out to throw away the garbage then the lock suddenly cannot work, I turned here and there, then I did a conclusion, "The lock is broken down." But how to do? Office closed already, so my housemate and me had to put a chair behind the door to avoid the door from wide open. That night I really worried someone will break into our apartment because my apartment block is far away from the guard post and behind of it is like 'forest', full of trees. Thanks God, nothing happened anyway. Then, Saturday and Sunday, no office, still, the chair was still behind the door. When my another 2 housemate came back from their holiday, they really shocked that the lock was broken down. They suspected that someone broken the lock on purpose, because before this the lock is OK.....no problem at all. The next Monday morning, the worse thing happened, the whole lock separate into two(outside and inside one....)....ohh...that sucks.....now everybody will know our door lock broken already. But after I finished my class at 4pm, thanks God, the lock had been repair.....whew......
Then on Wednesday, our physics lab section again. The experiment was really easy and our group done it in just 1 an hour.(hahaha.....have to say thanks to Chun Hoong......he done the lab report the day before this....). So, we were (again.....) the fastest group to hand up our lab report.....hahaha......but the sad news was, Miss Huda will not be our instructor again, because her contract with UNITEN finish already....so sad....she really was a good instructor and always will help us when we are facing the problems such as if we don't have idea to set up the apparatus, we can ask her, if we don't know how to calculate the results we can ask her..........she always willing to answer all of our question.
Lastly, yesterday, I had my calculus quiz, physics quiz and English test 2......yes.....2 quizzes and 1 test in 1 day.....and the worse thing was our class is from BA to BM then back to BA again then go to BN(the furthest building..........=_=") Physics quiz as usual, 2 question only, but question no1, I know the concept and the question is really easy one but I take the wrong force to minus another force, suppose to be mg-T but I wrote T-mg..........haiz~~~~down~~~~but at least I done all the question already. After that I had my English test, at first really don't have idea to write the essay, but after that miracle happens, I had a lot of ideas but the sad thing was - not enough time, the introductory paragraph and the other two body paragraph...wow....very long...but the third body paragraph and the conclusion only 3 lines.........oh my god.....but no choice.....had to pass up.....then is my calculus quiz....we were late actually but the quiz only have 20 minutes for us to answer the 2 question. As I read the question, why is it so easy? Especially question no2, the working so short, only 3 lines, so I was wondering am I answer correctly or not? And question no1, limit of trigonometry......actually at that moment, my mind really blank and don't know how 2 solve it but I still wrote down what I think........
Do you think my story about this week finish already? Not yet.....my apartment got problem again.....when I was online, my roommate come inside the room then said, "Hq, the sink of the kitchen bocor already....." WHAT!!!! AGAIN?????? Why my apartment so many problem? And until now the people in charge still haven't come yet to repair the sink.....haiz~~~what happen to this week? Nobody knows.....
After the interesting calculus class, yes, is time to go back my apartment and continue my sleeping.(hahaha....I love to sleep....^^). Again, the lock still like that but it still can open, so I didn't do the report to the office. But a real nightmare came, about 7pm, I went out to throw away the garbage then the lock suddenly cannot work, I turned here and there, then I did a conclusion, "The lock is broken down." But how to do? Office closed already, so my housemate and me had to put a chair behind the door to avoid the door from wide open. That night I really worried someone will break into our apartment because my apartment block is far away from the guard post and behind of it is like 'forest', full of trees. Thanks God, nothing happened anyway. Then, Saturday and Sunday, no office, still, the chair was still behind the door. When my another 2 housemate came back from their holiday, they really shocked that the lock was broken down. They suspected that someone broken the lock on purpose, because before this the lock is OK.....no problem at all. The next Monday morning, the worse thing happened, the whole lock separate into two(outside and inside one....)....ohh...that sucks.....now everybody will know our door lock broken already. But after I finished my class at 4pm, thanks God, the lock had been repair.....whew......
Then on Wednesday, our physics lab section again. The experiment was really easy and our group done it in just 1 an hour.(hahaha.....have to say thanks to Chun Hoong......he done the lab report the day before this....). So, we were (again.....) the fastest group to hand up our lab report.....hahaha......but the sad news was, Miss Huda will not be our instructor again, because her contract with UNITEN finish already....so sad....she really was a good instructor and always will help us when we are facing the problems such as if we don't have idea to set up the apparatus, we can ask her, if we don't know how to calculate the results we can ask her..........she always willing to answer all of our question.
Lastly, yesterday, I had my calculus quiz, physics quiz and English test 2......yes.....2 quizzes and 1 test in 1 day.....and the worse thing was our class is from BA to BM then back to BA again then go to BN(the furthest building..........=_=") Physics quiz as usual, 2 question only, but question no1, I know the concept and the question is really easy one but I take the wrong force to minus another force, suppose to be mg-T but I wrote T-mg..........haiz~~~~down~~~~but at least I done all the question already. After that I had my English test, at first really don't have idea to write the essay, but after that miracle happens, I had a lot of ideas but the sad thing was - not enough time, the introductory paragraph and the other two body paragraph...wow....very long...but the third body paragraph and the conclusion only 3 lines.........oh my god.....but no choice.....had to pass up.....then is my calculus quiz....we were late actually but the quiz only have 20 minutes for us to answer the 2 question. As I read the question, why is it so easy? Especially question no2, the working so short, only 3 lines, so I was wondering am I answer correctly or not? And question no1, limit of trigonometry......actually at that moment, my mind really blank and don't know how 2 solve it but I still wrote down what I think........
Do you think my story about this week finish already? Not yet.....my apartment got problem again.....when I was online, my roommate come inside the room then said, "Hq, the sink of the kitchen bocor already....." WHAT!!!! AGAIN?????? Why my apartment so many problem? And until now the people in charge still haven't come yet to repair the sink.....haiz~~~what happen to this week? Nobody knows.....
Citizens of the Environment: Are you one?
"They took all the trees
And put them in a tree museum
And they charged all the people
A dollar and half just to see 'em
Don't it always seems to go
That you don't know what you've
got
Till it's gone
They paved paradise
And put up a parking lot"
Joni Mitchell: Singer/Songwriter: Big Yellow Taxi:1970
Q1 Have you stopped yourself from throwing that piece of tissue paper or sweet wrapper outside the
car or a bus window?
Q2 Are you worried when you see forests being cleared uncontrollably and you just wish you could do
something to stop all this from happening?
Q3 Have you ever wondered, there might come a time, when the only place you and your friends
might be able to see a tiger, an elephant, an orangutan or even a rhinoceros will be at the zoo?
If, you say YES to one or two of these question, congratulations...you are well on your way to being part of the citizens who care and will protect our environment to the best you can.
What is environmental citizenship?
OK!!!!! Environmental Citizenship is your responsibility as part of the community, stop...take a step back and think how your daily life and the lives of the people around you have an effect on our environment. Once you have a clear understanding of this idea, you will certainly volunteer to change your daily habits, so that both you and the environment can benefit.
Environmental Citizens in Action
How you can start?... Well, here are some great cool ideas:
And put them in a tree museum
And they charged all the people
A dollar and half just to see 'em
Don't it always seems to go
That you don't know what you've
got
Till it's gone
They paved paradise
And put up a parking lot"
Joni Mitchell: Singer/Songwriter: Big Yellow Taxi:1970
Q1 Have you stopped yourself from throwing that piece of tissue paper or sweet wrapper outside the
car or a bus window?
Q2 Are you worried when you see forests being cleared uncontrollably and you just wish you could do
something to stop all this from happening?
Q3 Have you ever wondered, there might come a time, when the only place you and your friends
might be able to see a tiger, an elephant, an orangutan or even a rhinoceros will be at the zoo?
If, you say YES to one or two of these question, congratulations...you are well on your way to being part of the citizens who care and will protect our environment to the best you can.
What is environmental citizenship?
OK!!!!! Environmental Citizenship is your responsibility as part of the community, stop...take a step back and think how your daily life and the lives of the people around you have an effect on our environment. Once you have a clear understanding of this idea, you will certainly volunteer to change your daily habits, so that both you and the environment can benefit.
Environmental Citizens in Action
How you can start?... Well, here are some great cool ideas:
- You might want to turn the tap off while brushing your teeth of washing your face...we do not need to waste this precious water,right?
- You could turn off the lights or electrical appliances in your homes, offices or classrooms when not in use!
- Hmmmm...why don't you try separating your household garbage and be rewarded at the buy back centre
- Every time you feel like purchasing food outside, bring your own food (or even drink) containers along
- Have you heard about a programme called river watch, which helps you understand the processes of monitoring river water quality in your area? Why not join one today?
- Maybe you could even start an association in you area which cares and protects the environment
- You could even co-organise a talk together with an environmental NGO as an activity or
- You together with your friends could start a small recycling centre where proceeds are channeled towards environmental activities for your area.
The environment has no one else that it could depend on except for you and me. Its very existence tomorrow depends on whether you are wiling to take that first step in translating your concerns into actions, which sill ensure that it will still be there for our future generations to enjoy. As sang by Joni Mitchell in 'Big Yellow Taxi', there might come a day when the only way for you and I to see trees, will be in a tree museum. Let it not come to that, do you agree?
-------------Era Hijau 4-2006
..:Efficiency, Discipline, Study, Relaxation:..
----Efficiency----
Everyone has the same 1440 minutes to work with each day-no more and no fewer. The management of those minutes is what's important. They fly by more swiftly than an eagle. You sit down to watch a few minutes of television, and suddenly an hour or two passes. The same thing happens when you play computer games. Minutes turn into hours before you know it.
Learning how to efficiently manage your time is one of the most important skills you will ever develop. Time must be controlled, or it will control you. Use a daily planner or a handheld computer to map out your minutes.
Spend some of your minutes in planning. What goals do you want to reach today? Make a list. Then learnt how exciting it is to cross an activity off your list after you've accomplished it. Spend some of your time in quiet reflection. Take the time to reflect on your day.
Learn to conquer your minutes, and you'll have hours to spare.
{Real time management is self-management}
~MANAGE YOUR MINUTES
----Discipline----
With a "crack", the ball hit the baseball bat and went sailing into the air toward centre field. It seemed lik it almost left the earth's atmosphere. Freddie ran back as fast as he could and positioned himself right underneath it. The ball came down fast. Then it hit the tip of his glove and fell to the ground. Angry about his error, Freddin grabbed the ball and, out of frustration, turned and threw it as hard as he could. The ball went flying over the third baseman's head and rolled out into the parking lot. Because he acted quickly and was out of control, Freddie turned in the wrong direction. If he had controlled his anger, he would have known where he was throwing.
Life is filled with frustration moments. How you discipline yourself to react to them makes all the difference. If you react quickly and out of anger, you will probably "throw in the wrong direction".
Take time to think about the problem, and think about your reaction. You'll make fewer errors.
{Raised voices lower esteem. Hot tempers cool friendships. Loose tongues stretch truth. Swelled heads shrink influence. Sharp words dull respect.}
~CONTROL YOUR TEMPER
----Study----
Has your closet ever been so full that you had to just start cramming things in to make everything fit? What usually happens when you open the door the next day? Everything falls out, right? Or have you ever jammed so many clothes into a drawer that you couldn't get it shut?
Imagine that your brain is a drawer or closet. Cramming a bunch of facts into it the night before a big exam may get you a passing grade once in a while-but usually everything falls out, even before you get to the classroom.
If you want to do well on your tests, establish a study routine. Choose a time and place where you regularly open the books. Studying regularly is a lot better than studying frantically. Store facts in your brain a little at a time. It's just like storing information in files on the hard drive of your computer. If you store them properly, they're easier to find later.
If you put too much on your mind's hard drive, you're in for a cash.
{I have found that the harder I work, the luckier I seem to be!}
~ESTABLISH REGULAR STUDY HABITS
----Relaxation----
You live in a over-stimulated society. You rush from school to practice, to a job, to homework, and then to the mall for a soft drink-all in the same afternoon. All of the things you're involved in may be great, but sometimes you just need to push the "pause" button. You need to stop and smell the popcorn. You need to chill out once in a while.
Your body needs it. You teen years are times of accelerated growth. Your body is in high gear, and it's going through tremendous changes. Once in a while you need to stop long enough for your legs to keep up with your arms! Times of relaxation allow your cells to regroup and rest for the work ahead.
Your mind needs it too. Sometimes it's on overload. Homework, scripts, songs, plays, PIN numbers, cell phone numbers-you have a lot to think about. Sometimes you just need to stop thinking. Relax. Put your mind in neutral. It has a long trip ahead of it.
Enjoy your life, you only have one!
{God has given me this day to use as I will. I can waste it, or use it for good, but what I do today is important because I am exchanging a day of my life for it}
~STOP AND SMELL THE POPCORN
This is one of the article that my teacher gave me during my secondary school time. It is really meaningful and we can try to apply it in our daily life. I think the results will not be so bad if we try it.^^
Everyone has the same 1440 minutes to work with each day-no more and no fewer. The management of those minutes is what's important. They fly by more swiftly than an eagle. You sit down to watch a few minutes of television, and suddenly an hour or two passes. The same thing happens when you play computer games. Minutes turn into hours before you know it.
Learning how to efficiently manage your time is one of the most important skills you will ever develop. Time must be controlled, or it will control you. Use a daily planner or a handheld computer to map out your minutes.
Spend some of your minutes in planning. What goals do you want to reach today? Make a list. Then learnt how exciting it is to cross an activity off your list after you've accomplished it. Spend some of your time in quiet reflection. Take the time to reflect on your day.
Learn to conquer your minutes, and you'll have hours to spare.
{Real time management is self-management}
~MANAGE YOUR MINUTES
----Discipline----
With a "crack", the ball hit the baseball bat and went sailing into the air toward centre field. It seemed lik it almost left the earth's atmosphere. Freddie ran back as fast as he could and positioned himself right underneath it. The ball came down fast. Then it hit the tip of his glove and fell to the ground. Angry about his error, Freddin grabbed the ball and, out of frustration, turned and threw it as hard as he could. The ball went flying over the third baseman's head and rolled out into the parking lot. Because he acted quickly and was out of control, Freddie turned in the wrong direction. If he had controlled his anger, he would have known where he was throwing.
Life is filled with frustration moments. How you discipline yourself to react to them makes all the difference. If you react quickly and out of anger, you will probably "throw in the wrong direction".
Take time to think about the problem, and think about your reaction. You'll make fewer errors.
{Raised voices lower esteem. Hot tempers cool friendships. Loose tongues stretch truth. Swelled heads shrink influence. Sharp words dull respect.}
~CONTROL YOUR TEMPER
----Study----
Has your closet ever been so full that you had to just start cramming things in to make everything fit? What usually happens when you open the door the next day? Everything falls out, right? Or have you ever jammed so many clothes into a drawer that you couldn't get it shut?
Imagine that your brain is a drawer or closet. Cramming a bunch of facts into it the night before a big exam may get you a passing grade once in a while-but usually everything falls out, even before you get to the classroom.
If you want to do well on your tests, establish a study routine. Choose a time and place where you regularly open the books. Studying regularly is a lot better than studying frantically. Store facts in your brain a little at a time. It's just like storing information in files on the hard drive of your computer. If you store them properly, they're easier to find later.
If you put too much on your mind's hard drive, you're in for a cash.
{I have found that the harder I work, the luckier I seem to be!}
~ESTABLISH REGULAR STUDY HABITS
----Relaxation----
You live in a over-stimulated society. You rush from school to practice, to a job, to homework, and then to the mall for a soft drink-all in the same afternoon. All of the things you're involved in may be great, but sometimes you just need to push the "pause" button. You need to stop and smell the popcorn. You need to chill out once in a while.
Your body needs it. You teen years are times of accelerated growth. Your body is in high gear, and it's going through tremendous changes. Once in a while you need to stop long enough for your legs to keep up with your arms! Times of relaxation allow your cells to regroup and rest for the work ahead.
Your mind needs it too. Sometimes it's on overload. Homework, scripts, songs, plays, PIN numbers, cell phone numbers-you have a lot to think about. Sometimes you just need to stop thinking. Relax. Put your mind in neutral. It has a long trip ahead of it.
Enjoy your life, you only have one!
{God has given me this day to use as I will. I can waste it, or use it for good, but what I do today is important because I am exchanging a day of my life for it}
~STOP AND SMELL THE POPCORN
This is one of the article that my teacher gave me during my secondary school time. It is really meaningful and we can try to apply it in our daily life. I think the results will not be so bad if we try it.^^
Thursday, August 21, 2008
Which Month Are U? ^^
I'm December Baby......101% true......
---------------JANUARY BABY--------------------
pretty/handsome. Loves to dress up. Easily bored. Fussy. Seldom shows emotions. Takes time to recover when hurt. Sensitive. Down-to-Earth. Stubborn.
----------FEBRUARY BABY---------------
Abstract thoughts. Loves reality and abstract. Intelligent and clever. Changing personality. Attractive. sexiest out of everyone. Temperamental. Quiet, shy and humble. Honest and loyal. Determined to reach goals. Loves
freedom. Rebellious when restricted. Loves aggressiveness. Too sensitive and easily hurt. Gets angry really easily but does not show it. Dislikes unnecessary things. Loves making friends but rarely shows it. Horny. Daring and stubborn. Ambitious. Realizing dreams and hopes. Sharp. Loves entertainment and leisure. Romantic on the
inside not outside. Superstitious and ludicrous. Spendthrift. Tries to learn to show emotions.
-----------------MARCH BABY--------------------
Attractive personality. sexy. Affectionate Shy and reserved. Secretive. Naturally honest, generous and sympathetic. Loves peace and serenity. Sensitive to others. Great kisser. Easily angered. Trustworthy. Appreciative and returns kindness. Hardly shows emotions. Tends to bottle up feelings. Observant and assesses
others.
------------------APRIL BABY-------------------
Suave and compromising. Funny and humorous. Stubborn. Very talkative. Calm and cool. Kind and sympathetic. Concerned and detailed. Loyal. Does work well with others. Very confident. Sensitive. Positive Attitude. Thinking generous. Good memory. Clever and knowledgeable. Loves to look for information. Able to cheer evryone
up and/or make them laugh. Able to motivate oneself and others. Understanding. Fun to be around. Outgoing. Hyper. Bubbly personality. Secretive. Boy/girl crazy. Loves sports, music, leisure and traveling. Systematic. hott but has
brains.
-----------------MAY BABY -----------------
Stubborn and hard-hearted. Strong-willed and highly motivated. Sharp thoughts. Easily angered. Attracts others and loves attention. Deep feelings. Beautiful physically and mentally. Firm Standpoint. Needs no motivation. Shy towards oppisite sex. Easily consoled. Systematic (left brain). Loves to dream. Strong clairvoyance. Understanding. Sickness usually in the ear and neck. Good imagination. Good physical. Weak breathing. Loves
literature and the arts. Loves traveling. Dislike being at home. Restless. Not having many children. Hardworking. High spirited.
------------JUNE BABY -------------
You've got the best personality and are an absolute pleasure to be around. You love to make new friends and be outgoing. You are a great flirt and more than likely have an a very attractive partner. a wicked hottie. It is also
more than likely that you have a massive record collection. You have a great choice in films, and may one day
become a famous actor/actress yourself-heck, you've got the looks for it!!!
----------------JULY BABY --------------
Fun to be with. Secretive. Difficult to fathom and to be understood. Quiet unless excited or tensed. Takes pride in oneself. Has reputation. Easily consoled. Honest. Concerned about people's feelings. Tactful. Friendly.
Approachable. Emotional temperamental and unpredictable. Moody and easily hurt. Witty and sparkly. spazzy at times. Not revengeful. Forgiving but never forgets. dislikes nonsensical and unnecessary things. Guides others physically and mentally. Sensitive and forms impressions carefully. Caring and loving. Treats others equally. Strong sense of sympathy. Wary and sharp. Judges people through observations. Hardworking. No difficulties
in studying. Loves to be alone. Always broods about the past and the old friends. Waits for
friends. Never looks for friends. Not aggressive unless provoked. Loves to be loved. Easily hurt but takes long to recover.
------------AUGUST BABY ---------------
outgoing personality. takes risks. feeds on attention. no self control. kind hearted. self confident. loud and boisterous. VERY revengeful. easy to get along with and talk to. has an "every thing's peachy" attitude. likes talking and singing. loves music. daydreamer. easily distracted. Hates not being trusted. BIG imagination.
loves to be loved. hates studying. in need of "that someone". longs for freedom. rebellious when withheld or
restricted. lives by "no pain no gain" caring. always a suspect. playful. mysterious. "charming" or "beautiful" to everyone. stubborn. curious. independent. strong willed. a fighter.
------------SEPTEMBER BABY ---------------
Active and dynamic. Decisive and haste but tends to regret. Attractive and affectionate to oneself. Strong mentality. Loves attention. Diplomatic. Consoling, friendly and solves people's problems. Brave and fearless. Adventurous. Loving and caring. Suave and generous. Usually you have many friends. Enjoys to make love. Emotional.
Stubborn. Hasty. Good memory. Moving, motivates oneself and others. Loves to travel and explore. Sometimes sexy in a way that only their lover can understand.
---------------OCTOBER BABY-------------------
Loves to chat. Loves those who love them. Loves to takes things at the center. Inner and physical beauty. Lies but doesn't pretend. Gets angry often. Treats friends importantly. Brave and fearless. Always making friends. Easily
hurt but recovers easily. Daydreamer. Opinionated. Does not care to control emotions. Unpredictable. Extremely smart, but definitely the hottest AND sexiest of them all.
---------------NOVEMBER BABY--------------------
Trustworthy and loyal. Very passionate and dangerous. Wild at times. Knows how to have fun. Sexy and mysterious. Everyone is drawn towards your inner and outer beauty and independent personality. Playful, but secretive.
Very emotional and temperamental sometimes. Meets new people easily and very social in a group. Fearless and
independent. Can hold their own. Stands out in a crowd. Essentially very smart. Usually, the greatest men are born in this month. If you ever begin a relationship with someone from this month, hold on to them because their one of a kind.
---------------DECEMBER BABY ---------------
This straight-up means ur the most good-looking person possible... better than all of these other months! Loyal and generous. Patriotic. Competitive in everything. Active in games and interactions. Impatient and hasty. Ambitious. Influential in organizations. Fun to be with. Easy to talk to, though hard to understand. Thinks far
with vision, yet complicated to know. Easily influenced by kindness. Polite and soft-spoken. Having lots of ideas. Sensitive. Active mind. Hesitating, tends to delay. Choosy and always wants the best. Temperamental. Funny and humorous. Loves to joke. Good debating skills. Has that someone always on his/her mind. Talkative. Daydreamer.
Friendly. Knows how to make friends. Abiding. Able to show character. one guy/girl kind of person. Loveable. Easily hurt. Prone to getting colds. loves music. pretty/handsome. Loves to dress up. Easily bored. Fussy. Seldom
shows emotions. Takes time to recover when hurt. Sensitive.
---------------JANUARY BABY--------------------
pretty/handsome. Loves to dress up. Easily bored. Fussy. Seldom shows emotions. Takes time to recover when hurt. Sensitive. Down-to-Earth. Stubborn.
----------FEBRUARY BABY---------------
Abstract thoughts. Loves reality and abstract. Intelligent and clever. Changing personality. Attractive. sexiest out of everyone. Temperamental. Quiet, shy and humble. Honest and loyal. Determined to reach goals. Loves
freedom. Rebellious when restricted. Loves aggressiveness. Too sensitive and easily hurt. Gets angry really easily but does not show it. Dislikes unnecessary things. Loves making friends but rarely shows it. Horny. Daring and stubborn. Ambitious. Realizing dreams and hopes. Sharp. Loves entertainment and leisure. Romantic on the
inside not outside. Superstitious and ludicrous. Spendthrift. Tries to learn to show emotions.
-----------------MARCH BABY--------------------
Attractive personality. sexy. Affectionate Shy and reserved. Secretive. Naturally honest, generous and sympathetic. Loves peace and serenity. Sensitive to others. Great kisser. Easily angered. Trustworthy. Appreciative and returns kindness. Hardly shows emotions. Tends to bottle up feelings. Observant and assesses
others.
------------------APRIL BABY-------------------
Suave and compromising. Funny and humorous. Stubborn. Very talkative. Calm and cool. Kind and sympathetic. Concerned and detailed. Loyal. Does work well with others. Very confident. Sensitive. Positive Attitude. Thinking generous. Good memory. Clever and knowledgeable. Loves to look for information. Able to cheer evryone
up and/or make them laugh. Able to motivate oneself and others. Understanding. Fun to be around. Outgoing. Hyper. Bubbly personality. Secretive. Boy/girl crazy. Loves sports, music, leisure and traveling. Systematic. hott but has
brains.
-----------------MAY BABY -----------------
Stubborn and hard-hearted. Strong-willed and highly motivated. Sharp thoughts. Easily angered. Attracts others and loves attention. Deep feelings. Beautiful physically and mentally. Firm Standpoint. Needs no motivation. Shy towards oppisite sex. Easily consoled. Systematic (left brain). Loves to dream. Strong clairvoyance. Understanding. Sickness usually in the ear and neck. Good imagination. Good physical. Weak breathing. Loves
literature and the arts. Loves traveling. Dislike being at home. Restless. Not having many children. Hardworking. High spirited.
------------JUNE BABY -------------
You've got the best personality and are an absolute pleasure to be around. You love to make new friends and be outgoing. You are a great flirt and more than likely have an a very attractive partner. a wicked hottie. It is also
more than likely that you have a massive record collection. You have a great choice in films, and may one day
become a famous actor/actress yourself-heck, you've got the looks for it!!!
----------------JULY BABY --------------
Fun to be with. Secretive. Difficult to fathom and to be understood. Quiet unless excited or tensed. Takes pride in oneself. Has reputation. Easily consoled. Honest. Concerned about people's feelings. Tactful. Friendly.
Approachable. Emotional temperamental and unpredictable. Moody and easily hurt. Witty and sparkly. spazzy at times. Not revengeful. Forgiving but never forgets. dislikes nonsensical and unnecessary things. Guides others physically and mentally. Sensitive and forms impressions carefully. Caring and loving. Treats others equally. Strong sense of sympathy. Wary and sharp. Judges people through observations. Hardworking. No difficulties
in studying. Loves to be alone. Always broods about the past and the old friends. Waits for
friends. Never looks for friends. Not aggressive unless provoked. Loves to be loved. Easily hurt but takes long to recover.
------------AUGUST BABY ---------------
outgoing personality. takes risks. feeds on attention. no self control. kind hearted. self confident. loud and boisterous. VERY revengeful. easy to get along with and talk to. has an "every thing's peachy" attitude. likes talking and singing. loves music. daydreamer. easily distracted. Hates not being trusted. BIG imagination.
loves to be loved. hates studying. in need of "that someone". longs for freedom. rebellious when withheld or
restricted. lives by "no pain no gain" caring. always a suspect. playful. mysterious. "charming" or "beautiful" to everyone. stubborn. curious. independent. strong willed. a fighter.
------------SEPTEMBER BABY ---------------
Active and dynamic. Decisive and haste but tends to regret. Attractive and affectionate to oneself. Strong mentality. Loves attention. Diplomatic. Consoling, friendly and solves people's problems. Brave and fearless. Adventurous. Loving and caring. Suave and generous. Usually you have many friends. Enjoys to make love. Emotional.
Stubborn. Hasty. Good memory. Moving, motivates oneself and others. Loves to travel and explore. Sometimes sexy in a way that only their lover can understand.
---------------OCTOBER BABY-------------------
Loves to chat. Loves those who love them. Loves to takes things at the center. Inner and physical beauty. Lies but doesn't pretend. Gets angry often. Treats friends importantly. Brave and fearless. Always making friends. Easily
hurt but recovers easily. Daydreamer. Opinionated. Does not care to control emotions. Unpredictable. Extremely smart, but definitely the hottest AND sexiest of them all.
---------------NOVEMBER BABY--------------------
Trustworthy and loyal. Very passionate and dangerous. Wild at times. Knows how to have fun. Sexy and mysterious. Everyone is drawn towards your inner and outer beauty and independent personality. Playful, but secretive.
Very emotional and temperamental sometimes. Meets new people easily and very social in a group. Fearless and
independent. Can hold their own. Stands out in a crowd. Essentially very smart. Usually, the greatest men are born in this month. If you ever begin a relationship with someone from this month, hold on to them because their one of a kind.
---------------DECEMBER BABY ---------------
This straight-up means ur the most good-looking person possible... better than all of these other months! Loyal and generous. Patriotic. Competitive in everything. Active in games and interactions. Impatient and hasty. Ambitious. Influential in organizations. Fun to be with. Easy to talk to, though hard to understand. Thinks far
with vision, yet complicated to know. Easily influenced by kindness. Polite and soft-spoken. Having lots of ideas. Sensitive. Active mind. Hesitating, tends to delay. Choosy and always wants the best. Temperamental. Funny and humorous. Loves to joke. Good debating skills. Has that someone always on his/her mind. Talkative. Daydreamer.
Friendly. Knows how to make friends. Abiding. Able to show character. one guy/girl kind of person. Loveable. Easily hurt. Prone to getting colds. loves music. pretty/handsome. Loves to dress up. Easily bored. Fussy. Seldom
shows emotions. Takes time to recover when hurt. Sensitive.
My Colour Is Silver.......
Since you ready to read this survey you get to choose the color of what you feel today......
Here are the colors that you can choose from:
PURPLE- feeling a little lonely.
WHITE -having problems.
GREEN- just relaxing.
YELLOW- addicted to candy.
PINK- feeling so happy.
GRAY- having a boring time.
BLACK- craving for chocolate.
AQUA- hyper hyper.
ORANGE- not in love.
SKY BLUE-calm.
RED- happy because the person you love loves you back.
BROWN- you like someone.
SILVER- thinking of someone.
MAGENTA- heart broken.
BROWN- the person you like doesn't like you.
PEACH- your not bored. you got a lot of fun activities to do.
GOLD- saving money for this vacation.
CHOCOLATE- your really in love and you cant stop thinking about the person you love.
HOT PINK- you feel hot.
BLUE- you like someone but you don't know how that someone feels about you.
After looking for the color that you feel, repost the color saying
"My Colour Is ____"
Here are the colors that you can choose from:
PURPLE- feeling a little lonely.
WHITE -having problems.
GREEN- just relaxing.
YELLOW- addicted to candy.
PINK- feeling so happy.
GRAY- having a boring time.
BLACK- craving for chocolate.
AQUA- hyper hyper.
ORANGE- not in love.
SKY BLUE-calm.
RED- happy because the person you love loves you back.
BROWN- you like someone.
SILVER- thinking of someone.
MAGENTA- heart broken.
BROWN- the person you like doesn't like you.
PEACH- your not bored. you got a lot of fun activities to do.
GOLD- saving money for this vacation.
CHOCOLATE- your really in love and you cant stop thinking about the person you love.
HOT PINK- you feel hot.
BLUE- you like someone but you don't know how that someone feels about you.
After looking for the color that you feel, repost the color saying
"My Colour Is ____"
Sunday, August 17, 2008
A meaningful story....
Twenty years ago, I drove a cab for a living. It was a cowboy's life, a life for someone who wanted no boss. What I didn't realise was that it was also a ministry. Because I drove the night shift, my cab became a moving confessional. Passengers climbed in, sat behind me in total anonymity, and told me about their lives. I encountered people whose lives amazed me, ennobled me, made me laugh and weep. But none touched me more than a woman.
I picked up late one August night. I was responding to a call from a small brick fourplex in a quiet part of town. I assumed I was being sent to pick up some partiers, or someone who had just had a fight with a lover, or a worker heading to an early shift at some factory for the industrial part of town. When I arrived at 2.30am, the building was dark except for a single light in a ground floor window. Under these circumstances, many drivers would just honk once or twice, wait a minute, then drive away. But I had seen too many impoverished people who depended on taxis as their only means of transportation. Unless a situation smelled of danger, I always went to the door. This passenger might be someone who needs my assistance, I reasoned to myself. So I walked to the door and knocked.
"Just a minute," answered a frail, elderly voice. I could hear something being dragged across the floor. After a long pause, the door opened a small woman in her 80s stood before me. She was wearing a print dress and a pillbox hat with a veil pinned on it, like somebody out of a 1940s movie. By her side was a small nylon suitcase. The apartment looked as if no one had lived in it for years. All the furniture was covered with sheets. There were no clocks on the walls, no knickknacks or utensils on the counters. In the corner was a cardboard box filled with photos and glassware.
"Would you carry my bag out to the car?" she said. I took the suitcase to the cab, then returned to assist the woman. She took my arm and we walked slowly toward the curb. She kept thanking me for my kindness.
"It's nothing," I told her. "I just try to treat my passengers the way I would want my mother treated."
"Oh, you're such a good boy," she said. When we got in the cab, she gave me an address, then asked,"Could you drive through downtown?"
"It's not the shortest way," I answered quickly.
"Oh, I don't mind," she said. "I'm in no hurry. I'm on my way to a hospice." I looked in the rearview mirror. Her eyes were glistening.
"I don't have any family left," she continued. "The doctor says I don't have very long."
I quietly reached over and shut off the meter. "What route would you like me to take?" I asked.
For the next two hours, we drove through the city. She showed me the building where she had once worked as an elevator operator. We drove through the neighbourhood where she and her husband had lived when they were newlyweds. She had me pull up in front of a furniture warehouse that had once been a ballroom where she had gone dancing as a girl. Sometimes she'd ask me to slow in front of a particular building or corner and would sit staring into the darkness, saying nothing.
As the first hint of sun was creasing the horizon, she suddenly said,"I'm tired. Let's go now." We drove in silence to the address she had given me. It was a low building, like a small convalescent home, with a driveway that passed under a portico. Two orderlies came out to the cab as soon as we pulled up. They were solicitous and intent, watching her every move. They must have been expecting her. I opened the trunk and took the small suitcase to the door. The woman was already seated in a wheelchair.
"How much do I owe you?" she asked, reaching into her purse.
"Nothing," I said.
"You have to make a living," she answered.
"There are other passengers," I responed. Almost without thinking, I bent and gave her a hug. She held onto me tightly.
"You gave an old woman a little moment of joy," she said. "Thank you." I squeezed her hand, then walked into the dim morning light. Behind me a door shut. It was the sound of the closing of a life. I didn't pick up any more passengers that shift. I drove aimlessly, lost in thought. For the rest of that day, I could hardly talk. What if that woman had gotten an angry driver, or one who was impatient to end his shift? What if I had refused to take the run, or had honked once, then driven away? On a quick review, I don't think I have done anything more important in my life. We're conditioned to think that our lives revolve around great moments. But great moments often catch us unaware-beautifuly wrapped in what others may consider a small one.
#####PEOPLE MAY NOT REMEMBER EXACTLY WAHT YOU DID, OR WHAT YOU SAID,
...BUT THEY WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HOW YOU MADE THEM FEEL#####
I picked up late one August night. I was responding to a call from a small brick fourplex in a quiet part of town. I assumed I was being sent to pick up some partiers, or someone who had just had a fight with a lover, or a worker heading to an early shift at some factory for the industrial part of town. When I arrived at 2.30am, the building was dark except for a single light in a ground floor window. Under these circumstances, many drivers would just honk once or twice, wait a minute, then drive away. But I had seen too many impoverished people who depended on taxis as their only means of transportation. Unless a situation smelled of danger, I always went to the door. This passenger might be someone who needs my assistance, I reasoned to myself. So I walked to the door and knocked.
"Just a minute," answered a frail, elderly voice. I could hear something being dragged across the floor. After a long pause, the door opened a small woman in her 80s stood before me. She was wearing a print dress and a pillbox hat with a veil pinned on it, like somebody out of a 1940s movie. By her side was a small nylon suitcase. The apartment looked as if no one had lived in it for years. All the furniture was covered with sheets. There were no clocks on the walls, no knickknacks or utensils on the counters. In the corner was a cardboard box filled with photos and glassware.
"Would you carry my bag out to the car?" she said. I took the suitcase to the cab, then returned to assist the woman. She took my arm and we walked slowly toward the curb. She kept thanking me for my kindness.
"It's nothing," I told her. "I just try to treat my passengers the way I would want my mother treated."
"Oh, you're such a good boy," she said. When we got in the cab, she gave me an address, then asked,"Could you drive through downtown?"
"It's not the shortest way," I answered quickly.
"Oh, I don't mind," she said. "I'm in no hurry. I'm on my way to a hospice." I looked in the rearview mirror. Her eyes were glistening.
"I don't have any family left," she continued. "The doctor says I don't have very long."
I quietly reached over and shut off the meter. "What route would you like me to take?" I asked.
For the next two hours, we drove through the city. She showed me the building where she had once worked as an elevator operator. We drove through the neighbourhood where she and her husband had lived when they were newlyweds. She had me pull up in front of a furniture warehouse that had once been a ballroom where she had gone dancing as a girl. Sometimes she'd ask me to slow in front of a particular building or corner and would sit staring into the darkness, saying nothing.
As the first hint of sun was creasing the horizon, she suddenly said,"I'm tired. Let's go now." We drove in silence to the address she had given me. It was a low building, like a small convalescent home, with a driveway that passed under a portico. Two orderlies came out to the cab as soon as we pulled up. They were solicitous and intent, watching her every move. They must have been expecting her. I opened the trunk and took the small suitcase to the door. The woman was already seated in a wheelchair.
"How much do I owe you?" she asked, reaching into her purse.
"Nothing," I said.
"You have to make a living," she answered.
"There are other passengers," I responed. Almost without thinking, I bent and gave her a hug. She held onto me tightly.
"You gave an old woman a little moment of joy," she said. "Thank you." I squeezed her hand, then walked into the dim morning light. Behind me a door shut. It was the sound of the closing of a life. I didn't pick up any more passengers that shift. I drove aimlessly, lost in thought. For the rest of that day, I could hardly talk. What if that woman had gotten an angry driver, or one who was impatient to end his shift? What if I had refused to take the run, or had honked once, then driven away? On a quick review, I don't think I have done anything more important in my life. We're conditioned to think that our lives revolve around great moments. But great moments often catch us unaware-beautifuly wrapped in what others may consider a small one.
#####PEOPLE MAY NOT REMEMBER EXACTLY WAHT YOU DID, OR WHAT YOU SAID,
...BUT THEY WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HOW YOU MADE THEM FEEL#####
Friday, August 15, 2008
思念、想念......
五年的中学时光，一转眼就过去了。现在的我已经是大学生了。回想过去的种种，都让我好舍不得，尤其是所有中学时期教过我的老师、我所疼爱的学妹，都无法让我忘怀。
还记得当时刚进初中一，非常难适应国中的环境，因为所用的语言完全不同于小学，每一天上课都要很用心、很用力地听清楚老师到底在讲什么，但这样的日子维持并不久，因为我遇到了一个非常要好的好朋友，那就是aisyah。是的，没错，她是个异族同胞，但是她讲了一口非常流利的华语，当我们大家听到她说华语时，都吓得目瞪口呆，因为她讲的华语跟我们平时讲话时根本没什么两样。每当我有什么不明白的词语都会问她，而她也会毫不吝啬的教导我。就这样，我们彼此间的友谊漫漫的在初中一的时光中萌芽，直到现在，我们依然拥有共同的话题，只要拿起电话，就可以聊个通宵。好友难找，知己更难寻，但是我很幸运的找到了，除了aisyah就是lia了。我们三人不知怎的，好像冥冥中自有安排，之间的默契好得不得了，有时所要说的句子，一字不漏的相同，而且已经到了心照不宣的境界了。
另外占了我中学时光最重要的一部分就是管乐团了。进管乐团是受了我姐的影响，而且也是因为从小学钢琴的关系。对我来说音乐已经是我生命中不可或缺的一部分了。不但如此，我把我好多的第一次都献给了管乐：第一次吹乐器、第一次步操、第一次步操比赛拿第三名、第一次教学妹吹乐器、第一次拿到秘书的职位、第一次处理那么多的信件、第一次这么近距离的接近校长（因为每次要找她签名.....）、第一次踏上国际比赛的舞台、第一次经历教练离职、第一次面对分离......这一切的一切，说什么都不可能会忘记。我想说声谢谢，尤其是对其他八位执委：含微、宇洁、舒艳、莉莎、颖涵、欣慧、凯婧和hawa，谢谢你们对我的包容及体谅，因为有时我的所作所为让你们非常为难和头痛。除此之外，最最重要的就是我们的教练，虽然你已经离职了，但是在我的心中，你永远都是最棒的教练，永远记得你陪着我们在酷热的天气下连步操，牺牲你的睡眠赶工画出步操的草图，牺牲你的休息时间来教我们（尤其是我们的多于练习大多数在星期天......）你的辛劳和努力我们都看在眼里，所以当你决定离开我们的那一霎那，我们就好像在大海中迷失了方向的船只，失去了灯塔来照明未来的路......虽然如此，我们真的很感激你对我们的教导，而且是你把SABGS Wind Band的名字放上了国际比赛的大舞台。
我真的好想念以前的时光、好想念大家不分彼此的吹奏出首首动听的歌曲、好想念大家脱鞋踩着烂泥练步操的时候、好想念大家不管会不会晒得黑黑的，拼命的练步操、好想念疯狂的那着相机在校园内捕捉最美好的回忆......还有好多好多的思念深藏在我的心中，希望能有机会再次回到我的中学，看望所有的老师及学妹，也希望她们过的好......
还记得当时刚进初中一，非常难适应国中的环境，因为所用的语言完全不同于小学，每一天上课都要很用心、很用力地听清楚老师到底在讲什么，但这样的日子维持并不久，因为我遇到了一个非常要好的好朋友，那就是aisyah。是的，没错，她是个异族同胞，但是她讲了一口非常流利的华语，当我们大家听到她说华语时，都吓得目瞪口呆，因为她讲的华语跟我们平时讲话时根本没什么两样。每当我有什么不明白的词语都会问她，而她也会毫不吝啬的教导我。就这样，我们彼此间的友谊漫漫的在初中一的时光中萌芽，直到现在，我们依然拥有共同的话题，只要拿起电话，就可以聊个通宵。好友难找，知己更难寻，但是我很幸运的找到了，除了aisyah就是lia了。我们三人不知怎的，好像冥冥中自有安排，之间的默契好得不得了，有时所要说的句子，一字不漏的相同，而且已经到了心照不宣的境界了。
另外占了我中学时光最重要的一部分就是管乐团了。进管乐团是受了我姐的影响，而且也是因为从小学钢琴的关系。对我来说音乐已经是我生命中不可或缺的一部分了。不但如此，我把我好多的第一次都献给了管乐：第一次吹乐器、第一次步操、第一次步操比赛拿第三名、第一次教学妹吹乐器、第一次拿到秘书的职位、第一次处理那么多的信件、第一次这么近距离的接近校长（因为每次要找她签名.....）、第一次踏上国际比赛的舞台、第一次经历教练离职、第一次面对分离......这一切的一切，说什么都不可能会忘记。我想说声谢谢，尤其是对其他八位执委：含微、宇洁、舒艳、莉莎、颖涵、欣慧、凯婧和hawa，谢谢你们对我的包容及体谅，因为有时我的所作所为让你们非常为难和头痛。除此之外，最最重要的就是我们的教练，虽然你已经离职了，但是在我的心中，你永远都是最棒的教练，永远记得你陪着我们在酷热的天气下连步操，牺牲你的睡眠赶工画出步操的草图，牺牲你的休息时间来教我们（尤其是我们的多于练习大多数在星期天......）你的辛劳和努力我们都看在眼里，所以当你决定离开我们的那一霎那，我们就好像在大海中迷失了方向的船只，失去了灯塔来照明未来的路......虽然如此，我们真的很感激你对我们的教导，而且是你把SABGS Wind Band的名字放上了国际比赛的大舞台。
我真的好想念以前的时光、好想念大家不分彼此的吹奏出首首动听的歌曲、好想念大家脱鞋踩着烂泥练步操的时候、好想念大家不管会不会晒得黑黑的，拼命的练步操、好想念疯狂的那着相机在校园内捕捉最美好的回忆......还有好多好多的思念深藏在我的心中，希望能有机会再次回到我的中学，看望所有的老师及学妹，也希望她们过的好......
珍惜人生每一秒，用心过日子.......
“以“秒”计算人生，每一秒就能累计人生永恒的历史。生而为人，天天要过日子，如果天天烦恼，妄想纷乱，只是空过时日，什么也得不到。用心抓住时间，心用在时间上，用在待人处事上，便能有一个多彩多姿的人生。人生就像无法拨回的时钟，我们的生命时钟也永远无法再拨回去。因此，我们要好好把握时间，努力当下。”-----证言上人
当我拿到慈济给的这本月刊时，翻开第一面，就被以上的主题给吸引住了。“珍惜人生每一秒，用心过日子。”人生，不管长短，只要我们存在在这个世界上，就有我们存在的价值，只是看你怎样对待你的人生：就此荒废了，还是努力扮演好你的角色，把事情做到最好？用心、用心，大家都会说，但是有多少人能真正的用心呢？心是永远在跳动着的，它只会停止它的工作当你对这个世界说再见的那一天。我们不知道人生的路到底有多长，也不知道我们的心何时停止跳动，所以我们需要珍惜上天所赐予我们的生命，不管怎样，都不能轻易了绝了自己的生命。就像这星期一英文节时，我们的老师突然跟我们说有一位外国学生，从十二层楼跳了下来，就此了绝了自己。熟语说：“死有于轻如鸿毛，重如泰山。”为什么就这样自杀了呢？生命是宝贵的，不管怎样，生命不能像玩一场游戏，输了能重来。
所以我们应该珍惜生命、珍惜人生每一秒、珍惜你身边所有的人、事、物，这才不枉我们的父母所给予我们的生命。
当我拿到慈济给的这本月刊时，翻开第一面，就被以上的主题给吸引住了。“珍惜人生每一秒，用心过日子。”人生，不管长短，只要我们存在在这个世界上，就有我们存在的价值，只是看你怎样对待你的人生：就此荒废了，还是努力扮演好你的角色，把事情做到最好？用心、用心，大家都会说，但是有多少人能真正的用心呢？心是永远在跳动着的，它只会停止它的工作当你对这个世界说再见的那一天。我们不知道人生的路到底有多长，也不知道我们的心何时停止跳动，所以我们需要珍惜上天所赐予我们的生命，不管怎样，都不能轻易了绝了自己的生命。就像这星期一英文节时，我们的老师突然跟我们说有一位外国学生，从十二层楼跳了下来，就此了绝了自己。熟语说：“死有于轻如鸿毛，重如泰山。”为什么就这样自杀了呢？生命是宝贵的，不管怎样，生命不能像玩一场游戏，输了能重来。
所以我们应该珍惜生命、珍惜人生每一秒、珍惜你身边所有的人、事、物，这才不枉我们的父母所给予我们的生命。
27 things about boys.....
-GUYS MAY BE FLIRTING AROUND ALL DAY BUT BEFORE THEY GO TO SLEEP, THEY ALWAYS THINK ABOUT THE GIRL THEY TRULY CARE ABOUT..
-Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.
-Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him
-GUYS HATE IT WHEN YOU TALK ABOUT YOUR EX-BOYFRIEND OR EX-LOVE INTEREST
-BOYFRIENDS NEED TO BE REASSURED OFTEN THAT THEY'RE STILL LOVED.
-DON'T TALK ABOUT YOUR GUY FRIENDS TO YOUR BOYFRIEND.
-Guys get jealous easily.
-GUYS ARE MORE EMOTIONAL THAN THEY'D LIKE PEOPLE TO THINK.
-GIVING A GUY A HANGING MESSAGE LIKE "YOU KNOW WHAT?!..UH..NEVERMIND.." WOULD MAKE HIM JUMP TO A CONCLUSION THAT IS FAR FROM WHAT YOU ARE THINKING. AND HE'LL ASSUME HE DID SOMETHING WRONG AND HE'LL OBSESS ABOUT IT TRYING TO FIGURE IT OUT.
-Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
-A USUAL ACT THAT PROVES THE GUY LIKES YOU IS WHEN HE TEASES YOU.
-GUYS LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOU LOVE THEM IF THEY ARE SERIOUS IN THEIR RELATIONSHIPS..
-GUYS THINK WAY TOO MUCH. ONE SMALL THINGA GIRL DOES, EVEN IF SHE DOESN'T NOTICE IT CAN MAKE THE GUY THINK ABOUT IT FOR HOURS, TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHAT IT MEANT..
-Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused.
-When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."
-IF A GUY STARTS TO TALK SERIOUSLY, LISTEN TO HIM. IT DOESN'T HAPPEN THAT OFTEN, SO WHEN IT DOES, YOU KNOW SOMETHING'S UP.
-If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you.
-When a guy tells you that you are beautiful, don't say you aren't. It makes them want to stop telling you because they don't want you to disagree with them.
-WHEN A GUY LOOKS AT YOU FOR LONGER THAN A SECOND, HE'S DEFINITELY THINKING SOMETHING.
-Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.
-A GUY HAS MORE PROBLEMS THAN YOU SEE WITH YOUR NAKED EYES.
-Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.
-Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.
-GUYS HATE REJECTION, BUT THEY HATE BEING LED ON EVEN MORE
-If you are going to reject a guy, just do it. Don't say they are like a brother or just good friends, it just hurts even more. Tell them that you aren't interested in a relationship and they will respect you.
-Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.
-WHEN A GUY SACRIFICES HIS SLEEP AND HEALTH JUST TO BE WITH YOU, HE REALLY LIKES YOU AND WANTS TO BE WITH YOU AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE..
-Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.
-Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him
-GUYS HATE IT WHEN YOU TALK ABOUT YOUR EX-BOYFRIEND OR EX-LOVE INTEREST
-BOYFRIENDS NEED TO BE REASSURED OFTEN THAT THEY'RE STILL LOVED.
-DON'T TALK ABOUT YOUR GUY FRIENDS TO YOUR BOYFRIEND.
-Guys get jealous easily.
-GUYS ARE MORE EMOTIONAL THAN THEY'D LIKE PEOPLE TO THINK.
-GIVING A GUY A HANGING MESSAGE LIKE "YOU KNOW WHAT?!..UH..NEVERMIND.." WOULD MAKE HIM JUMP TO A CONCLUSION THAT IS FAR FROM WHAT YOU ARE THINKING. AND HE'LL ASSUME HE DID SOMETHING WRONG AND HE'LL OBSESS ABOUT IT TRYING TO FIGURE IT OUT.
-Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
-A USUAL ACT THAT PROVES THE GUY LIKES YOU IS WHEN HE TEASES YOU.
-GUYS LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOU LOVE THEM IF THEY ARE SERIOUS IN THEIR RELATIONSHIPS..
-GUYS THINK WAY TOO MUCH. ONE SMALL THINGA GIRL DOES, EVEN IF SHE DOESN'T NOTICE IT CAN MAKE THE GUY THINK ABOUT IT FOR HOURS, TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHAT IT MEANT..
-Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused.
-When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."
-IF A GUY STARTS TO TALK SERIOUSLY, LISTEN TO HIM. IT DOESN'T HAPPEN THAT OFTEN, SO WHEN IT DOES, YOU KNOW SOMETHING'S UP.
-If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you.
-When a guy tells you that you are beautiful, don't say you aren't. It makes them want to stop telling you because they don't want you to disagree with them.
-WHEN A GUY LOOKS AT YOU FOR LONGER THAN A SECOND, HE'S DEFINITELY THINKING SOMETHING.
-Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.
-A GUY HAS MORE PROBLEMS THAN YOU SEE WITH YOUR NAKED EYES.
-Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.
-Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.
-GUYS HATE REJECTION, BUT THEY HATE BEING LED ON EVEN MORE
-If you are going to reject a guy, just do it. Don't say they are like a brother or just good friends, it just hurts even more. Tell them that you aren't interested in a relationship and they will respect you.
-Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.
-WHEN A GUY SACRIFICES HIS SLEEP AND HEALTH JUST TO BE WITH YOU, HE REALLY LIKES YOU AND WANTS TO BE WITH YOU AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE..
Thursday, August 14, 2008
looking back....
12/12/2006, 2 years, it's seem long time ago, but when I flip back the photo, all kinds of memory pop-up in my mind, the sweet one; the bitter one, that I'll never ever forget in my life. This was the first time SABGS Wind Band participating in an international indoor competition-A Festival of Winds at Putrajaya Auditorium. Also, this was the first time we combined our band with another chinese private school-Pei Hwa Highschool. Before this competition, some of the ex-senior really not agree with us to combined band with them. This is because we are marching band and our sound will more powerful and is not so suitable to go indoor. Although the disagreement of the ex-senior, but we one to try it, prove that we can do it. Addition to this we get the news that our sir decided to stop teaching us, thus, we have to give him a big present-an award in this competition.
But during the rehearsal, we done it badly. Our sir was very disappointed and scolded us. I still remembered what he said:"What happen to you all? If cannot concentrate don't waste my time and your time.(because each team only have 15 minutes to rehearsal......). Don't need to rehearsal already, go down the stage now." That time we all burst into tears because our sir never ever scolded us like that, before this he was so funny, so dedicated but that day..... We were so upset and unhappy. So we decided no matter how no matter what, we had had to do our best in the competition.
This was our show time. We were the last team to present our songs-Arsenal and Soar The Untamed Spirit. Unfortunately, there was one team from Sabah(Kian Kok Secondary School) play the same song with us(Soar The Untamed Spirit). Before this we really afraid we couldn't do our best because that school is so good. Although feeling nervous, we just do our very best, present our songs successfully. After going back stage, on our face we had a big broad smile. We knew we done it. Practice for so many months, inviting Japan instructor, Mr Mitsuo Nonami, to polish our songs, put in all our affort, secrifice our sleeping time just because of this competition. 
Finally, HIP-HIP-HOORAY. We got SILVER AWARD!!!!!!!!!! This was the best farwell present for our sir. We will not see him again in our practice time and have to say goodbye to him. He was the best sir I ever had although everytime he have high expectation on us but we always make him disappointed. But I still like to say :"THANK YOU, SIR!!!!!!!!"Wednesday, August 13, 2008
信任一个人，真的这么难吗？
朋友之间的友谊，朋友之间的相处之道，都建筑在“信任”这两个字上。但是信任一个人真的有这么困难吗？
第一影像非常重要，但是如果某人在第一次的见面上犯了错误，我们就要认定这个人不可靠、不能完成所赋予他的工作吗？这是靠影响来打分，完全不给他人机会，就完全否定了他的努力。虽然他很想证明给其他人看他是可以被信任的，但是那个“第一影响”已经把他打入了完全不被信任的框框里。如果在一个团队中，大家不能信任彼此，在做任何事情的过程中，大家都以自己为中心，不肯去相信队友、去肯定队友的能力，那么这团队所得到的成果是丰硕的呢？还是完全得不到应得的呢？答案就尤大家自己去反省吧。反省一下自己有没有犯过这种错误，在第一次的见面时，就把对方判了个死刑。但是相信我，只要放开胸怀，信任一个人，并不是一件难事。^^
第一影像非常重要，但是如果某人在第一次的见面上犯了错误，我们就要认定这个人不可靠、不能完成所赋予他的工作吗？这是靠影响来打分，完全不给他人机会，就完全否定了他的努力。虽然他很想证明给其他人看他是可以被信任的，但是那个“第一影响”已经把他打入了完全不被信任的框框里。如果在一个团队中，大家不能信任彼此，在做任何事情的过程中，大家都以自己为中心，不肯去相信队友、去肯定队友的能力，那么这团队所得到的成果是丰硕的呢？还是完全得不到应得的呢？答案就尤大家自己去反省吧。反省一下自己有没有犯过这种错误，在第一次的见面时，就把对方判了个死刑。但是相信我，只要放开胸怀，信任一个人，并不是一件难事。^^
today is not our day.....:-/
Yes, today is really not our day....this "our" include my buddy Udin, Hana and definitely me. Strating with me first, from the previous night, I've trying very hard to open my laptop lock to lock my laptop but until my thumb is like red hot chili, the lock still stuck. Ok, be patient and I said to myself have to go to bed already, it's 2am, tomorrow(actually is this morning.....)still got 6-hours non-stop class. Then I decided to wake up earlier to try again to open my lock but still cannot, and unfortunately, when the door of my woredrobe is wide open(because the woredrobe very near with my bed.......) I go 2 my bed and I actually scratched my feet(is left foot.....answering udin's question....hahahaha) I thought it's only a small scratch, it will not bleed, but when I'm having my breakfast, looking downwards, oh my god....my feet is bleeding!!!!!! Luckily my housemate gave me the plaster or esle I really don't know how to wear my shoes today.......and because of the lock cannot open, I've to bring my laptop with me, it was damn heavy......
As time going on, today is my lab section. Although I read the procedure before this but still not sure how the experiment to be carried out. And a big supprise: Miss Huda is not here today. The instructor just came in, wrote something on the whiteboard and said:"Ok, class, you can start your experiment now...." WHAT!!!!!!!!! Because if is Miss Huda, she will do some demo to us and just begin the experiment. All of us was shocked and really blur about the experiment. Then some of us ask her to demostrate a bit of the experiment but she was like talking to herself only. Some of the students could hardly hear what she was saying. Then, we started the experiment and the explanation of the instructor didn't help us at all. We figured it out ourselves and do the experiment.
Then I've bring in my laptop also because we are not allowed to bring in our bags into the lab, and the wrost thing happened. More and more my classmates came to my table to touch and open my laptop although I refused to do it so. I'm not selfish that they cannot touched my laptop but we are doing experiment, we are in the class, I don't one because of my laptop they cannot finish their work and create a havoc in class. Some of them said I bring the laptop because I one to show off my new laptop. IT'S NOT TRUE!!!!!! I just one to make sure my laptop is safe. So I'm really "on fire" at that time and addition to this something unhappy happened(sry.....cannot mantion it...because that person knows my blog.....) that really makes me no more mood to participate in the experiment....my friend, Udin, was sitting just in front of me, seeing my face turning black and he tried to ask me what happen actually but I couldn't tell him because that person was very near me.....and as the result, I'm the last 2 group to pass up the lab report....it's really unusual because before this my group always one of the fastest group to pass it up.....
And the really bad thing happened, Hana lost her wallet, somebody stole it. She was so upset and started to cry because all her valuable things was inside her wallet: her IC, ATM card, L lisence.....gone, and she have to take her driving test next tuesday but now she didn't have her L lisence....but finally everything turns out alright....and she make a report to the security......
At last, about Udin. After the lab section we have our phy tutorial replacement class at BA. So we rushed to COE foodcourt to have our lunch and finish our meal as fast as possible. Then on the way to the BA building, he suddenly said:"Oh my god, I forgot to take my spectacles, it's in the lab...."
(that's all I know about his unlucky day.....for more information...please go to his blog....hahahahaha.....)
So, we are very unlucky today rite????? Haiz~~~~hope tomorrow have a nice day.....no more unlucky incidents happen....
As time going on, today is my lab section. Although I read the procedure before this but still not sure how the experiment to be carried out. And a big supprise: Miss Huda is not here today. The instructor just came in, wrote something on the whiteboard and said:"Ok, class, you can start your experiment now...." WHAT!!!!!!!!! Because if is Miss Huda, she will do some demo to us and just begin the experiment. All of us was shocked and really blur about the experiment. Then some of us ask her to demostrate a bit of the experiment but she was like talking to herself only. Some of the students could hardly hear what she was saying. Then, we started the experiment and the explanation of the instructor didn't help us at all. We figured it out ourselves and do the experiment.
Then I've bring in my laptop also because we are not allowed to bring in our bags into the lab, and the wrost thing happened. More and more my classmates came to my table to touch and open my laptop although I refused to do it so. I'm not selfish that they cannot touched my laptop but we are doing experiment, we are in the class, I don't one because of my laptop they cannot finish their work and create a havoc in class. Some of them said I bring the laptop because I one to show off my new laptop. IT'S NOT TRUE!!!!!! I just one to make sure my laptop is safe. So I'm really "on fire" at that time and addition to this something unhappy happened(sry.....cannot mantion it...because that person knows my blog.....) that really makes me no more mood to participate in the experiment....my friend, Udin, was sitting just in front of me, seeing my face turning black and he tried to ask me what happen actually but I couldn't tell him because that person was very near me.....and as the result, I'm the last 2 group to pass up the lab report....it's really unusual because before this my group always one of the fastest group to pass it up.....
And the really bad thing happened, Hana lost her wallet, somebody stole it. She was so upset and started to cry because all her valuable things was inside her wallet: her IC, ATM card, L lisence.....gone, and she have to take her driving test next tuesday but now she didn't have her L lisence....but finally everything turns out alright....and she make a report to the security......
At last, about Udin. After the lab section we have our phy tutorial replacement class at BA. So we rushed to COE foodcourt to have our lunch and finish our meal as fast as possible. Then on the way to the BA building, he suddenly said:"Oh my god, I forgot to take my spectacles, it's in the lab...."
(that's all I know about his unlucky day.....for more information...please go to his blog....hahahahaha.....)
So, we are very unlucky today rite????? Haiz~~~~hope tomorrow have a nice day.....no more unlucky incidents happen....
my handphone.....=(
After calculus test(10/8), we decided to go to Mid Val to unwind ourselves. This is a great idea because I'm in uniten 1 month already but really haven't go out for a walk yet. I'm the first one to confirm with Hana that I definately one to go. Then Udin, Hazmer and Am also follow us. That's good because at least got boys accompany us when taking the taxi. We are so happy and having movie at Mid Val.
but my nighmare just begin.....when taking KTM go back to kajang, the station really full of people, very very crowded.....as I squeeze into the train, my friend really shout that jaga our handphones and wallet....but it is too late.....when I touched my pocket.....my handphone is gone.....at that particular time.....my mind was really blank and really felt like one to fainted already.....after checking and checking....I confirm that my handphone is being stolen by someone....this was the first time i really afraid my bro my sis my dad my mum know I lost my handphone....although the handphone is not the expenssive type....but it is still use money to buy it......
but I'm very lucky....I have my friends besides me especially Udin(thank you......^^)that helps me to call the Maxis Centre to block the number....or esle I really don't know how to do......it is not a good memory but it teaches me a lesson.....next time I'll not be so careless already....
but my nighmare just begin.....when taking KTM go back to kajang, the station really full of people, very very crowded.....as I squeeze into the train, my friend really shout that jaga our handphones and wallet....but it is too late.....when I touched my pocket.....my handphone is gone.....at that particular time.....my mind was really blank and really felt like one to fainted already.....after checking and checking....I confirm that my handphone is being stolen by someone....this was the first time i really afraid my bro my sis my dad my mum know I lost my handphone....although the handphone is not the expenssive type....but it is still use money to buy it......
but I'm very lucky....I have my friends besides me especially Udin(thank you......^^)that helps me to call the Maxis Centre to block the number....or esle I really don't know how to do......it is not a good memory but it teaches me a lesson.....next time I'll not be so careless already....
new friends....^^
After leaving secondary school, seperating with my very very best friends:aisyah and lia, I really feeling like losing something in my life. This is because when during the secondary school life, they are the best friends that I ever had. Especially when we are in Form5, 3 of us become really really close and always be together no matter where we go. My chemistry teacher also said:"3 of you make 1 pasar." Yup, we are very talkative, very naughty but we all one to make our teachers remembered us....3 of us....heqing, aisyah and lia.
now I'm in UNITEN, aisyah is in matrics pahang and lia is in UNISEL. Although very sad when separate with them, but I found a lots of new friends here, in UNITEN. First of all is Hana. She was same mass with me during orientation week(but actually I not so remember already.....cz that week she wear tudung...so cannot recognise....hahaha.....) and she have the same time table with me. So from the first day onwards, we always go 2 class together and starting to know each other. The second person is Udin. I really don't know why can communicate with him very well, maybe we have the same interest(i think so.....). We are both from the band: both marching and concert band. First time I knew about he is also a band member(still remember at the library.....first time study group), I really really happy and excited, because at that time I'm finding somebody that is from school band. We always have the common topic to talk and exchanging ideas. But unfortunately certain people begin to misunderstanding between us.....hana, him and me.....because very often he always together with 2 of us.....but it is really nothing between us.....i don't know whether others will believe or not....but i really treat him like my very very best friend like aisyah and lia......always chatting with nonsences or discussing the work.....My parents, sis and bro really found me pelik because my friends most of them is malay. They always ask why make friends with so many malays???? But in my mind, what is the problem making friends with them?????? Haiz.....but I really very appreciate their friendship although we just know each other 1 month only.....
THANKS, FRIENDS!!!!!!
now I'm in UNITEN, aisyah is in matrics pahang and lia is in UNISEL. Although very sad when separate with them, but I found a lots of new friends here, in UNITEN. First of all is Hana. She was same mass with me during orientation week(but actually I not so remember already.....cz that week she wear tudung...so cannot recognise....hahaha.....) and she have the same time table with me. So from the first day onwards, we always go 2 class together and starting to know each other. The second person is Udin. I really don't know why can communicate with him very well, maybe we have the same interest(i think so.....). We are both from the band: both marching and concert band. First time I knew about he is also a band member(still remember at the library.....first time study group), I really really happy and excited, because at that time I'm finding somebody that is from school band. We always have the common topic to talk and exchanging ideas. But unfortunately certain people begin to misunderstanding between us.....hana, him and me.....because very often he always together with 2 of us.....but it is really nothing between us.....i don't know whether others will believe or not....but i really treat him like my very very best friend like aisyah and lia......always chatting with nonsences or discussing the work.....My parents, sis and bro really found me pelik because my friends most of them is malay. They always ask why make friends with so many malays???? But in my mind, what is the problem making friends with them?????? Haiz.....but I really very appreciate their friendship although we just know each other 1 month only.....
THANKS, FRIENDS!!!!!!
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
university life....
1 month already. Unversity life is really fun and happy, but behind the happiness I have to face a lot problems: the course that I don't like, the test, the quizzes and many many more. I know my dad and mum really worry about me because I have taken the field that I don't like so much before this.
However during this 1-month time, I have learnt how to accept the reality that I have to study really really hard to acheive good results although I don't like the course because I really no road to go after failing in JPA interview n UTP aplication. I'm now still trying to adapt myself in the physics class but until now I still wondering can I do it or not......as my label :"If you dream it, you can do it, go for it." I hope the course that I have chosen is correct and I can acheive it like wise my bro.
However during this 1-month time, I have learnt how to accept the reality that I have to study really really hard to acheive good results although I don't like the course because I really no road to go after failing in JPA interview n UTP aplication. I'm now still trying to adapt myself in the physics class but until now I still wondering can I do it or not......as my label :"If you dream it, you can do it, go for it." I hope the course that I have chosen is correct and I can acheive it like wise my bro.
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